Gluten Free Diet Tips: How To Order At A Restaurant

Eating Away From Home On A Gluten Free Diet

The first thing most folks do when they or someone in their family is diagnosed with celiac disease is clean out their own pantry and refrigerator. Their mission is to wipe out all the gluten in the vicinity.

Of course, that is an excellent first step. But we all know we don't eat at home 100 percent of the time. Whether for convenience sake or for fun, eating out at a restaurant is part of our life.

Eliminating gluten from your diet does not mean you can never walk into a restaurant again. It does mean you'll have to do a bit of research, learn the menu, and get to know the staff well. It might sound like a lot of work, but if you don't want to miss out on some of your favorite restaurants, it will be well worth the effort. 
Let's take a look at a few suggestions for handling a meal out when you are eating gluten-free.

Check the Menu

Most restaurants now offer an online menu. Go ahead and start there. Scroll through the menu to find any offerings that are marked 'gluten-free' or 'GF.'  Be sure to make a list so you are ready when the time comes to call the restaurant for more information or to order when you get there.

Call the Restaurant

With menu in hand, give the restaurant a call and ask to speak with the general manager or kitchen manager. Be sure to call during the off-peak hours, not during the lunch or dinner rush. Choose a few specific items on the menu and ask about the ingredients and how it is prepared to avoid cross-contamination. A good manager will be happy to discuss this with you. If not, find another restaurant. It's not worth the chance you would be taking with your health to get rushed or incomplete answers.

Chat with the Staff

If you go to a restaurant without doing the first two steps, you will need to have a talk with the server or manager before you order. Tell him or her that you need a gluten-free meal. Ask them to point out items they recommend, then be very specific about how the food is prepared. You can't expect your server to be absolutely up on all the gluten-free do's and don'ts, so you have to know your stuff, and know what to ask.

Honey vs Vinegar

You know the saying; "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar."  Well, not very appetizing when talking about eating out, but I wanted to make a point. Restaurant managers and servers are busy people. They are trying to serve everyone well and keep everyone happy.  For that reason, it is best to be patient and polite as your server gets you the information you need.

Of course, you should ask all the questions you need to arrive at a good decision when it comes to ordering a meal away from home. And, of course, you should be very specific about what you need to know. This may frustrate your server, so it's best to let him or her know right up front that you will have a lot of questions about how the food is prepared. That way a manager may be called to your table right away to avoid some of the back-and-forth in trying to find answers for you.

If the restaurant staff is not able (or willing) to take the time to answer your questions, then it's time to bid a polite farewell and find another restaurant.

Watch Out for Surprise Gluten

It's amazing how many strange places gluten can be found. We have learned to watch out for gluten in packaged foods we bring home, but who would think that pancake batter would be added to make omelets fluffier at a restaurant? Did you know that wheat flour may be added to salad dressing to make it creamier, and that meat may be marinaded in soy sauce?  Soy sauce may be added to a variety of foods to make it richer looking and saltier. French fries may be deep fried in the same vat with breaded chicken. These are all areas to check carefully.

The good news is, most respectable restaurants now offer at least some gluten-free choices on their menu. They are also aware of cross-contamination issues. If your favorite restaurant is behind the times, have a nice chat with the manager or owner and see if you can catch them up. Gluten-free diets are not going to disappear, and restaurants will be eager to please when they see their guests walk out the door.

Be persistent with your questions, in a polite way, and soon you'll be enjoying an ever-increasing choice of gluten-free meals away from home.